yesterday was a good day. Lovely son has come to visit, first time we have seen him this year, and it was great to take him out to the beach, we ate fish and chips on the sand and paddled in the sea. Ordinary things, part of an ordinary life, all the more precious given the ups and downs of our lives so far this year.
Also yesterday hubby went to have a medical, it is part of his requirements for his job. It was just such a medical, a little over a year ago that began the whole process of a broken heart being eventually fixed. There is little doubt that medical saved his life. This year, this time it is different, all is well, the heart is mended, the doctor is happy to sign his form.
So we head home, feeling blessed and positive, we are beginning to believe that this all may soon be over, that normal, real life is around the corner waiting for us. We can almost touch it.
Reflecting on all that happened, on the weeks and weeks he spent in hospital, how the whole team worked hard to fix him I often think of the others that shared that ward, that slept in beds next to and opposite hubby and whose wives and mothers became part of my team, a club we didn’t want to be in, we reached out to help each other get through those tricky times.
It is with great sadness that on the very day hubby passes his medical, we learn of one man who was not so fortunate. He had also had a broken heart, but sadly for him there was no fix, and now some five months on we learned that he lost his fight for life. This news pulled us up shortly. A stark reminder of what happens, of what could have happened to us. My heart is sorry for his wife, I remember well how she would sit reading to her hubby, long hours at his bedside, it was tough, tough on all of us, but for me, I have my hubby back, and a chance of a new life. I am thinking of his son, and all the grandchildren who clustered around his bed, and sorry that they have lost their Granddad.
So, all we can do is send love to the family and to count our blessings that this time it was not our turn. In doing so, we will also promise to make the most of the life we have, to live it well and to grab every single opportunity that comes our way. To never waste time worrying what might happen, that is something none of us know. Instead we shall celebrate life, going quietly about this world, trying to help and remembering to choose happy every single time.